What is hoovering?
It's when the narcissist tries to suck you back into the relationship or into being available for them to obtain narcissistic supply.
It can happen in different ways. And it can look very different as well. Praise, flattery, a sudden crisis? Or maybe they are just criticizing you out of the blue. Whatever the excuse, it has only one goal. To engage you in the cycle of abuse yet again.
What does it feel like to be hoovered by a narcissist or a psychopath?
In today's video I compare it with a shark that is lurking an unaware happy go lucky swimmer.
Oh, yes. It's weird.
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