Your Exceptional Qualities

People that have been abused by a malignant narcissist end up blaming themselves for not having boundaries, not being assertive enough, being too giving, too nice, being weak, not enough, defective. When in reality that's exactly what the abuser wants you to believe, and then, in turn, morph into that (gaslighting 101) 

In today's video I wanted to give voice to the qualities that a predator personality looks for in a target. 

Someone with a cluster B personality disorder, will use and abuse a target's resilience for example, until there's not much left to get supply from. 

Attributes like empathy, hope for the future, hope for the abuser's future to be exact, kindness, altruism, and intelligence, are all necessary ingredients for an abundant and long lasting "supply". Narcissists don't look for weak people, they want someone that will remain in the relationship, no matter what.

I tend to get a bit crossed with the injustice of these issues so you may find that the video will be more representative of that wired up side of me 😊